ADVICE TO A FRIEND: Strategies wealth and happiness
Motto: "The best way to help the poor is not to be among them."
How to gain wisdom
There are two ways you can become wiser. The first is to learn from their experience of life and the second - to study the lives of others.
Personal Reflection
Examine your own life experiences. Learn to reflect. It is the act of analysis of events in life to learn from them. This process is called "rewinding the film."
Events in your life are one of the best sources of information. Do not just be a traveler to pass through living simply. You have to win something every day. Pay attention to what is happening around you, that you can record everything in consciousness.
It is a time and place for everything. There are times in which we operate and that we reflect moments. Most people can not find time for serious reflection. We are very busy, we neglect this crucial component of success formula.
It is a time and place for everything. There are times in which we operate and that we reflect moments. Most people can not find time for serious reflection. We are very busy, we neglect this crucial component of success formula.
At the end of the day, you spend a few moments to reflect what happened that day: where have you been, what you did, what you said. Analyze what worked and what not, you want to repeat what you want to avoid. Try to remember the events more vivid as possible. Remember the colors, aspects, sounds, conversations and experiences.
Experience can become a valuable currency, incredible source of appreciation. But this can only happen if you take the time to record it, weigh it and then turn it into something valuable. Ultimately, it is not important what happens in your life. More importantly, what you do with what happens in your life. And to do something positive about your life, you have to collect valuable information from it.
Another good time for reflection is at the end of major periods such as week, month or year. At the weekend, try to spend a few hours to reflect and weigh the events last seven days. At the end, gives this work a whole day. And at the end of the year - a week. Weighs and reflect on what
happened in your life.
happened in your life.
People have learned to refine gather past and invest in the future. Thus life becomes productive and even exciting. Not live, just another year. Gather previous years and invests them in the next. Do not wear just a discussion. Gather all past discussions and invests them in the next.
To develop a new discipline. Discover by observation how things work in this world. Do not ever admit that someone can say you've lived life without discovering it. It might not be able to do everything you found, but make sure you find everything you can do.
As you study the life, make sure you study both the positive and negative, both successes and failures. Failures of our lives are useful only if we are able to learn their lessons. Often they are much better teachers than successes.
One of the best ways to learn to do something well is to do something that stupid. Doing things wrong is a valuable course in life. But most importantly, teaches lessons immediately!
I suggest you follow not too long this way. Do not repeat the same mistake twice one. If you can learn quickly, then there is a better way, better to learn from personal experience.
Learn from others
Another way to obtain knowledge is indirect, through the experiences of others. You can learn both from successes of others and of their failures. One reason, the Bible is so valuable is the collection of human stories of both sides of the barricade.
Some stories are called "examples". The message is: do what they did to these people.The other series of stories called "warnings". The message is: Do what they did to these people. What wealth of information!
Some stories are called "examples". The message is: do what they did to these people.The other series of stories called "warnings". The message is: Do what they did to these people. What wealth of information!
If your story falls into one book, make sure it is used as an example, but not as a warning.
There are three ways that one can learn from others:
1. Through published literature, such as books, audio and video tapes.
2. Listening to wise or stupid things said by others.
3. Seeing the attitude of winners or losers.
Consider each of these areas.
There are three ways that one can learn from others:
1. Through published literature, such as books, audio and video tapes.
2. Listening to wise or stupid things said by others.
3. Seeing the attitude of winners or losers.
Consider each of these areas.
Books and tapes
All successful people that I met are good readers. Read, read, read. Their curiosity urges them to read. Just need to know. They seek constantly new ways to become better. Here's a phrase you should always remember: all leaders are readers.
What fantastic time living generation today! Unlimited access to the many successful books, electronic publications, the audio and video cassettes. This generation does not know what censorship. The communist take care to shave his head and people to remain illiterate, not to understand what evil system leads. Young man, be like a sponge, read, read, read! Aculează useful information for success.
What fantastic time living generation today! Unlimited access to the many successful books, electronic publications, the audio and video cassettes. This generation does not know what censorship. The communist take care to shave his head and people to remain illiterate, not to understand what evil system leads. Young man, be like a sponge, read, read, read! Aculează useful information for success.
You know there are thousands of books on topics such as being stronger, decided to be a better speaker, better leader, a better lover, a man most influential, how to find a friend, how to become more refined how to start a business and thousands of other useful topics? Yet many people do not use this wealth of knowledge. How do you explain this?
You know that hundreds of successful people have put their stories on paper, fit to inspire others? And yet people will not read them. Why? How do you explain this?
"Type" our busy. He says: "Well, yes. But if you work where I work, you come home late. You should eat something, to look less to the TV to relax and then get into bed. You can not stay awake half the night and read, read, read. " And this guy was late in paying bills. It is a good worker toils hard, is honest. Listen carefully! You can be honest and work hard and still end up toatză life broke, confused and puzzled. You must be more than a good worker. You must be a good reader!
You know that hundreds of successful people have put their stories on paper, fit to inspire others? And yet people will not read them. Why? How do you explain this?
"Type" our busy. He says: "Well, yes. But if you work where I work, you come home late. You should eat something, to look less to the TV to relax and then get into bed. You can not stay awake half the night and read, read, read. " And this guy was late in paying bills. It is a good worker toils hard, is honest. Listen carefully! You can be honest and work hard and still end up toatză life broke, confused and puzzled. You must be more than a good worker. You must be a good reader!
Now, should not half the night reading books (although if you're broke, is not a bad idea). All I ask is to devote thirty minutes daily teaching. That's all.
You seriously do you have? Then turn the thirty minutes in an hour. And something else important. Do not miss again. Postpone a meal, but teaching for thirty minutes. We all can not afford to go over a few tables, but none of us can not afford to lose ideas, examples and inspiration.
The Bible teaches that people can not live by bread alone. We say that besides food, mind and soul must feed on words. Unfortunately, most people suffering from mental malnutrition.
Some people read so little that they have reached a mind of rickets. Not only should you feed your mind, but to make sure that mental well-balanced diet. Do not feed your mind with things easier. You can not live only with "candy".
Consider your time for reading as a "capture the treasure of ideas." And if anyone has found an excuse not to do so, at least thirty minutes every day, then I'd like to hear myself. No you will not come to believe the excuse you hear!
Educate yourself. Regular education will give ordinary results. Here is the income of those who have a normal education and decide if what you want in this life. If not, if you want more than the average, must start to educate yourself. Make a library. One special phenomena in terms of information to be contained. Do not forget to have, first of all, the Bible in all its teaching. Another book that you recommend is "the idea of money" by Napoleon Hill. If you have not read it yet, do it quickly.
You seriously do you have? Then turn the thirty minutes in an hour. And something else important. Do not miss again. Postpone a meal, but teaching for thirty minutes. We all can not afford to go over a few tables, but none of us can not afford to lose ideas, examples and inspiration.
The Bible teaches that people can not live by bread alone. We say that besides food, mind and soul must feed on words. Unfortunately, most people suffering from mental malnutrition.
Some people read so little that they have reached a mind of rickets. Not only should you feed your mind, but to make sure that mental well-balanced diet. Do not feed your mind with things easier. You can not live only with "candy".
Consider your time for reading as a "capture the treasure of ideas." And if anyone has found an excuse not to do so, at least thirty minutes every day, then I'd like to hear myself. No you will not come to believe the excuse you hear!
Educate yourself. Regular education will give ordinary results. Here is the income of those who have a normal education and decide if what you want in this life. If not, if you want more than the average, must start to educate yourself. Make a library. One special phenomena in terms of information to be contained. Do not forget to have, first of all, the Bible in all its teaching. Another book that you recommend is "the idea of money" by Napoleon Hill. If you have not read it yet, do it quickly.
You will learn the most important lesson of life: between cost and value is a big difference. Previously, I was wont to ask: "How much is it?" Now my question sounds different: "How worth it?" From when I started my life base value and not price began to happen all kinds of important things.
Never forget: you are what you read.
Never forget: you are what you read.
Typically, a library, or lack thereof, I say who is the person or that person thinks dialogue. Choosing books reveals predominant thoughts, desires and values of a people.
What does your library about you? Reading is not a luxury, something to do in your spare time. It is a must for those who want to develop. Not that most who believe that high school graduation or faculty, entitling them to stop reading. Start to read, especially books, which will help you unlock the potential within.
What does your library about you? Reading is not a luxury, something to do in your spare time. It is a must for those who want to develop. Not that most who believe that high school graduation or faculty, entitling them to stop reading. Start to read, especially books, which will help you unlock the potential within.
Listening
Listening is a great way to learn. A great idea: find a person who has obtained a great success and invite her to dinner. And then what? You're right. Listen.
Tries. Spend three, four or five hundred denarii, providing a table with several dishes.Ask as many questions and listen. Try to take at least two hours. If you are able to do this, you will learn enough strategies to boost your income and change your life.
Of course you're right. Poor people can not invite to dinner on the rich. Perhaps that is why they are poor.
"Type" tells us: "If rich to pay for one meal that damned! I'm not going to spend any money. And besides that, if you work where I work, you get home late. You should eat something, to look less to the TV to relax and then get into bed. You can not spend all this time trying to find a rich man to feed you. " And this kind of delayed payment for invoices. It is a good worker, a man who toils hard and is honest. But you can work hard and to be honest life and to end up broke and miserable. You must be more than a good worker. You must be a good listener.
"Type" tells us: "If rich to pay for one meal that damned! I'm not going to spend any money. And besides that, if you work where I work, you get home late. You should eat something, to look less to the TV to relax and then get into bed. You can not spend all this time trying to find a rich man to feed you. " And this kind of delayed payment for invoices. It is a good worker, a man who toils hard and is honest. But you can work hard and to be honest life and to end up broke and miserable. You must be more than a good worker. You must be a good listener.
Observation
The third way is to learn from others to notice. Notice how the man shake hands with someone successful. Notice how the questions she was successful. Observed behavior and how successful people go on the street. People who are doing well have successful habits. They create patterns of behavior of winning, such as lagging behind to beat creates patterns of behavior. Want to be promoted? Notice your superiors. Want to make as much money as your uncle? Notice how he manages his money and life style.
One of the reasons to participate in seminars successful people is the chance to observe.No book or box can not transmit the force of silent non-verbal communication.
One of the reasons to participate in seminars successful people is the chance to observe.No book or box can not transmit the force of silent non-verbal communication.
Good morning!
And you can be a winner!
And you can be a winner!
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